Dating Tips For Single Women- Still Single And Frustrated?
October 31, 2009 by admin
Filed under Dating tips
Tip 1. Single women always express their emotions and thoughts better than single men. That means guys generally have a good sense of what single women want and are after- someone who’s smart, loyal and has a great sense of humor.
Tip 2. Remember ladies, if single men talked about their feelings as much as single women do, then dating would be very easy. So how do you find out what single men really want if they don’t tell you? Simple, ask your girlfriends what he meant when he said he had a really nice time with you and if the third date is too soon to have sex. Your girl friends will only tell you what you want to hear. You need to be realistic in what guys are really saying. Guys want a single woman who is consistent and stable. Don’t act one way on the first date and another way on the second date. Stability is the key.
Tip 3. The goal of dating tips for single women is not to change you into someone else so you can meet more men. Guys don’t want that. Men want someone who is confident. That’s right, confidence really turns them on. If you are happy with yourself and who you are, then he will be too. Men don’t want drama queens.
Tip 4. Guys will pick up and notice whatever aspects of yourself you don’t like. If you hate your body type, he will also. It goes both ways. If he doesn’t feel like he is very successful, why would you disagree?
Tip 5. Remember that a boyfriend will not magically cure everything in your life. You already had a life before you have a boyfriend. A good guy will want to help make things even better. Making someone else happy makes a good relationship. Demanding what you want does not.
Ladies, your assignment for this week is to identify two characteristics about you that you love. Write them down. Now, make sure to let five single men know about these characteristics when you talk to them or meet them. Show yourself off!
Best, Janis Spindel www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
