Has Anyone Had Success With On-line Dating? Any Tips For Posting My Profile?
I’ve had plenty of success. The key is to get someone’s attention, be original, and make sure you use the spell check. It’s a huge turn off to see misspelles words. Avoid the typical “walks on the beach” type of answers… especially if you live in Colorado! Be a little humorous, but not crude. It will be a little different if you are male of female. Men and women are looking for different things. POST A PIC. That is the key to getting your profile looked at. Talk about your passions, not just you hobbies. Keep it concise. Make them curious and don’t give everything away on your first shot. And finally, realize that sometimes it takes time. Be patient and know there is someone out there.
It\\\’s funny to me how people try something once and give up because it doesn\\\’t work and then blame the system they are using. Online dating works for a lot of people. I just interviewd a couple for my membership site that met online and got married and are happily married. Like most tools it\\\’s how you use it. There seems to be a myth that you meet more wierdos online but actually they are part of real life, it\\\’s just that with online dating you are meeting more people in a shorter space of time so it may seem like there are more of them online. They are everywhere – at your work, at your local pub or nightclub… Also if you keep attracting a certain type, I\\\’d be curious to think about what in you is attracting that?
I agree with Maggi – know what you are looking for (most people really don\\\’t know); be honest (rather than try to be who you think the other person might want you to be). I\\\’d also add, don\\\’t give up, lighten up and enjoy the journey and not get soo focused on the destination!
i had an online dating b4. he was in this very room on yahoo answers. we broke up for a good reason. we dont talk to each other that much anymore. we dont talk on the phone anymore, we havent talk to much on messenger, cuz he leaves to hang with his friends. i tell him that i miss him, but he doesnt say anything anymore. but we are friends thats all there is to it.
I would not recomend it. Both my sister and I tried it ( Match.com) and I met a “H” Addict(dumped him as soon as I found out) and she met a Crack Addict and it ruined her life… If you do just be VERY careful who you talk to or meet with do not divulge too much info, and do not be affraid to ask too many questions. (ie, kids, jail, drugs..etc) This is you life your dealing with! Be Careful!
I have dated online and would NEVER do it again. Problem with online dating is that behind a computer screen you are free to be who you want to be and almost everyone lies! I would NEVER date online again and I would never recommend it to anyone. AS for your profile. DO NOT put a pic online as all it does is draw perverts
Yes, I have had sucess. You just have to be honest about yourself. If you are looking for someone in particular, be picky when you say what kind of person you are looking for. Let them know exactly what kind of person you are and what kind of person you are looking for.