Dating Tips for Guys: A Woman’s Perspective : How to Cure Yourself of Nice-Guy Syndrome
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Cure nice-guy syndrome by establishing your own schedule and build a sense of self-worth that keeps you from being used. Get out of the “friend trap” in a relationship withadvice from a female dating coach in this free video on dating tips for guys. Expert: Jessica Claire Contact: www.newyorkdatingcoach.com Bio: Jessica Claire is the host of her own midnight hour talk radio show, where she gives call in advice on dating. Filmmaker: Paul Muller
The reasons why jerks win is because: They’re confident and go after what they want without showing weakness. In all things, the jerk is still the jerk and doesn’t express the Alpha male approach. Because at the end you don’t want to be the guy who’s beating off the other guy, because he’s a smooth talker and is winning over the jerk’s girl.
I’m not going to change who I am. If girls are really that way then fine, let them go be with the assholes who make them cry.
I agree with you gig16 one must learn how to take care about oneself first.
@prettyboy1970
I’m only 21 and am already acting like those jerk types. . . . and it works like a fucking charm!
i ll tell u y jerks get chicks……..1. they are strongly determined to get the chick. 2.they give a damn to every thing which makes them super confident… and no 3 . they are not scared of the chicks father brother boyfriend . and most imp reason they fake a lot ….u would never know when they fake ….if u have this qualities the chick is all yours
you see the light bro. You dont have to be an asshole to win her over. All you need to do is remember a girls attraction is tied to her emotions and feelings she gets. She wants to be stimulated by your presence and wants a guy that’s virile..not a dick. You can never ‘buy’ her attraction towards you by doing all these nice things..it doesn’t carry value because you’re just giving it to her, instead of her earning it.
a person who just cares about himself and no one else? no one
okay, she has a good point, girls do NOT want assholes, simpley, there jerks no one wants a jerk, onli slutty girls want the asshole. BUT they also dnt want a PUSSY! there sooo annoying and clingy. just a middle guy, a nice guy who will stand there grounds and say wat he thinks,. i agree with this woman except for ONE thing at the end. she stated. The more you care about urself the more others will care about u. thats completely false, yes u need to have self confidence but who wants to be wit
WRONG! The jerk almost always gets the girl. Women mistake a man’s selfish, cocky ,obnoxious behavior as strength and fall for it every time. Women also see kindness and compassion as weakness; that’s why they reject the good guy. They wise up around age 30, but by then the good guys have been hurt too many times and act like the jerks women fawned over in their 20’s.
I find myself made this mistake before, always think for her, as if I live for her and she can sense it. IT’s wrong.One must need to take care of himself before he can take care of other people. Thx for the advice.
I finally got to kiss a girl and i got the biggest boner in my life and i was wearing shorts. after that i knew i was fked so i forced her to kiss me.
moron paul
Here’s a sweet girl providing tips for guys and you are turning this into an antisemitic rant…
You fucken wanker troll…
Typical New York broad…why couldn’t the kike be in WTC 1/2 on 9/11?
Especially the top floors…
jessica i want f*ck you so bad.
I co-sign this statement.
(wiping drool from side of mouth)
lmao
Yeah, once you are their friend they will most likely be concerned with losing the friendship they have with you if it does not work out. Plus being a friend is not challenging. Both sexes need some sort of challenge to get excited. As I commented on another post, You can challenge them by being a jerk or do it some other way.
But being a true blue friend generally does not work until a woman has matured and by that time they are fat and worn out and you are not that interested anymore.
True… You don’t have to be a jerk. You just have to be exciting. How you choose to get them ramped up is up to you. You can do it by being a jerk or by just challenging them in some other way.