What Does It Mean When The Guy Im Dating Constantly Ask Me “what Are You Thinking?
The man I am dating ask me several times during the cource of the night, wether we are having dinner or sometimes right before sex, “What are you thinking?
Help, men out there, what does this mean?
Well I’m not a man, but I speak with experience of dating insecure guys… in my opinion he is intimidated by you, and feeling insecure. So much that he feels the need to ask you constantly what you are thinking in hopes that it will give him at least some relief. See what he really wants to hear is, “I was just thinking about how much of a wonderful person you are, and the fact that you make me REALLY happy…” I suggest trying to show him that you are really into him; just do little things here and there to make him feel wanted. and by chance you are not interested in him, you need to let him know sooner rather then later, he will only fall more head over heals for you as time goes on, so it will make it MUCH harder for him to let go. Also might I add there are two things you need beware, guys that have a lot of issues with themselves definitely need their ego’s stroked on a more then regular basis, if you don’t want to deal with having to make him feel good all the time, and would like someone with a positive attitude, do not stick around, it do not get any better…. and number two, a high majority of guys who are insecure are also abusive, it makes them feel better then you, if only for a second… I’ve been there. Sorry I cannot fill you in on warning signs of abusive guys… in my experience you can feel it coming once you have already been in that situation a couple times, most times though you can see the control starting around the 2 month mark.
Live your life how you decide, and I hope I was of a little help !!
I know I’m not a guy, but here’s a possible reason why he could be asking you what you’re thinking all the time.
Maybe, you’re just not giving him enough feedback, from facial expressions, things you say. It may not be intentional, but sometimes a date can think you’re hiding things when you don’t open up immediately. It’s not always a bad thing, but sometimes they find it hard to understand.
I’m saying this, because I for one am often not too good at saying what I feel…and sometimes, i can confuse people a bit when I don’t tell them things. I’ve found that it’s often good to explain this to your date, because it helps them to understand you a bit.
Just talk to him about it. The best way forward I think!
Hope that helps
I know I’m not a man, but I do tend to ask my boyfriend what he’s thinking every once in a while. The guy that you’re dating is probably wondering if you’re thinking about him. I don’t know why I ask it sometimes, but if I think something is bothering him then I want to know if I can help.
If it bothers you, just ask him why he wants to know. My boyfriend asked me and he’s perfectly fine with my curiosity. Don’t be afraid to ask why he’s so interested in your thoughts.
People ask this question when they are a bit insecure and they are not completely sure if you are really into them or not.
If you really do like him, try to make it very clear.
If you are not sure, be honest, and tell him you need more time to make up your mind.
At least that way, he’ll know.
I’m not a man, but I will answer. They want to find out if you are really interested in them. I know from experience that when I’m with a guy that grosses me out, I don’t have the heart to tell them, so I act weird.
maybe he just wanted to know if you do not want having dinner or sex with him and the best thing to do is to ask him why is he always asking you that
Im pretty sure he is curious and he is simply asking whats on your mind..what are you thinking about. I always ask my GF that..