How to Approach Hot Women, Date Them, & Have Lots of Sex…Without Being an Asshole
December 11, 2009 by admin
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Lots of pickup books are made for high school and college kids. This is one for guys who are a little more “evolved” and beyond the gimmicks that are so common in this genre.
This book is about more than one-night stands. It’s about how to have a life, where you control the relationship that you want. If you want a one-nighter, that’s cool. After a while, that can get old though. This book helps you to move beyond that stage, which many of us have found ourselves in, but not known exactly how to get past. If you can relate, check it out.
Rating: 4 / 5
The title leads you to believe this is another one of those wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am books, but it really isn’t. Although it is about how to meet women for activities other than micro biology tutoring, the author tries to make the reader realize that getting women in the sack is not the do all end all of the flirting game. There should be some substance to your search. He does not discourage you from the hunt if all you are looking for is primal satisfaction, but he does try to get you to think about what you are really looking for in a woman, so that you can tailor the search to that type of person rather than just hopping in the sack with anyone, whom you’ll probably just want to forget at the end of the “event”. The book is short, easy to read, and has some subtle humor weaved it to keep it light and lively. I’ll probably read it again with a little more attention to detail the second time, but I do think there is some usefulness to be derived from its’ pages.
Rating: 5 / 5
This is definitely an “inner game” book with some great, but rudimentary “outer game” advice. It does a great job of laying out what the attitude a man should possess to be successful with women and does so in a very inspiring manner. I almost felt my chest puff up as I read the first part of this book.
The model of the “outer game” it presents is rudimentary: ABC: Approach, Banter and Connection, but really that is not a bad thing. As what this book wants you to concentrate is on your mind, your attitude, your body language, your surroundings and the people you are interacting with. As it quotes PUA Badboy, “It’s not what you say, but how you say it.” And if your inner game is tight even cheesy ’70′s pick up lines will work, if in an ironic post modern way.
And if that were not enough, the book also presents very practical “psychologically sound” advice on communication and relationship management. The type of advice that marriage counselors give, which is really something I have only seen in The Zen of Meeting Women: 2nd Edition by Max Weiss.
So it seems that this is the dawning of a new paradigm in the seduction genre. Not so much manipulate, but more cooperate to get what is of mutual benefit to both men and women.
And one last thing, this book has to have the greatest cover art of any seduction book out there. It’s sexy, it’s humorous and confident just like a pick artist should be!
Rating: 5 / 5
I think I have read almost every book about PUA and I’m always looking for new tips. Let’s face it, all these guys say the same thing just in a different way. I have come to appreciate PUA books that have a theme (like this one).
The best thing I took away from this book was the “if they zig you zag” approach to picking up women. What I mean is that, while all other guys are trying to be Mystery and be flashy and stand out, Cooper Newman teaches how to be cool, act like a gentleman and make a better impression for being a decent human being than being a show pony.
While just standing around being a nice guy won’t get you far (you still have to put some effort into getting a woman’s attention), this book shows you how to find a book balance between being yourself yet using classic PUA techniques to get the girl.
This book isn’t exactly the PUA encyclopedia or anything, I appreciate that a fellow PUA took the time to write a book sharing his experiences and give hope to all of us still trying to figure it out.
Rating: 5 / 5
I found this book helpful and, unlike some of the other books I’ve read on the subject, it didn’t leave me feeling like a total slimeball. Some other guy mentioned this, and I agree with him, that this book is for a more “mature” audience. Not that it’s X-Rated or anything, but that it’s made for people who are beyond the fantasy that so many of these seduction gurus try to portray. The book shows how it’s possible to have a sustainable relationship, not just a one night stand. Refreshing for this genre.
Rating: 5 / 5