Why Do Black Women Have A Problem With Black Men Dating Outside?
black men have a choice to date anyone they choose.
They say that a white woman is a slut because she is dating a black guy and is stupid. Everyone is dating outside and there is nothing that they do about it. It is about dating and falling in love and not about race.
I know what you mean. I was just having this conversation with the guy im seeing right now (he is black),We talked about how people ask him why he would date a white girl…and how im not sure how many times iv been given dirty looks or rude comments because I have a black boyfriend. Once a girl wanted to fight me because of it.
honestly, im not sure why it has to cause drama. If 2 people like eachother, why cant they just be together. Why does race matter?
I think some black women have a problem because we have to try hard to compete with the other races of women we are always overlooked by the other races because of our race, we also have to many superfical things to make us look as as good as the other races, because they do sterotype us black females. Our men always look at the other race of women to the point that the black women have to pray to get a successful black man which their is a shortage of . It hurts us when our black men are nearly extinct by being in jail or in a grave. The good ones overlook the successful black women to go outside our race because they decide they choose not to date a black woman, it hurts our pride as a female and lowers our self-esteem. Some not All! Like some sistas decide to date outside their race because they been through to many problems with a black man.
Don’t just say black woman because black men have the same problem that black women have when they see a mixed couple. It not every black woman just athe ones that can’t get a man and vice versa for the black man. I say that it depends on the person. Because believe or not all black woman don’t date black man. So stop putting all of us in the box.
because all black guyrs are either jerks, in gangs, gay, or white lovers! there isnt much to choose from. black women want a man who is rich and cater to their every need, and its sad that the rich and smart ones go for white girls!!
and therefore, they get very upset.
Im a black boy and I dont have a problem with interracial marriage, it just needs getting used to. the only problem is that there would be tension between both families lol.
people say anything i date white guy and also black when im around white people sometime they look at us like were not suppose to be friends but i dont see but my friend does i told her it becuz they are races cuz in our city they i lot of races
and if u fall inlove with a white person it okay they are just haters they can kiss my ***
I’m a white woman that dated a black man for 2 years. And I hate to say it but most of the racial comments came from white men, and black women…I do not understand this either. You see a lot of couples where the woman is black and the man is white and for some odd reason this seems to be more accepted. I hope we get answers.
LMBO timmy…what catagory do you put yourself in then?
I notice that too, my fiance is black and i’m hispanic though but at the club the other day my baby’s friend was talking to another hispanic and some black girls got all butt hurt about it and said ” what you can’t hang with us black women or what” and they beat up that hispanic girl….go figure….
I would like to know the answer to that too. I was friends with a black girl and I dated a black guy and she had a fit about it. I don’t know for sure the reason behind it but I think people just need to get over the fact that races are being mixed. It’s none of their business.
not all black women have problem with.so don’t say all black women.I personally don’t haveproblemm with people who date outsidetheirr race.
not all black women have that issue ;
but the ones that do are probably just upset because they figure just because you’re black you should be with your own race ;
[[ which is dumb ; if you like someone like them for who they are not their skin color ]]
the ones that B ! t c h about are the ones racist… they need to get a life and stop bending over..havent u seen that eharmony commercial were the white guy found and black woman as a perfect man?? now there married…
y do you alway ask this question do what you want?