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		<title>14 Online Dating Tips!</title>
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Tips to online dating. I have had years of first hand experiences. www.match.com www.pof.com www.blackpeoplemeet.com www.blackplanet.com (eh! you won&#8217;t get much out of this site but you never know) www.eharmony.com www.meetup.com (social / dating/ networking site) www.yahoopersonals.com
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<p>Tips to online dating. I have had years of first hand experiences. www.match.com www.pof.com www.blackpeoplemeet.com www.blackplanet.com (eh! you won&#8217;t get much out of this site but you never know) www.eharmony.com www.meetup.com (social / dating/ networking site) www.yahoopersonals.com</p>
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		<title>Top 15 Dating Tips for men and women</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 10:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dating Tip #1 &#8211; if you are on your first date, then never mention that you live with your mother.  Most women think that men that live with their mothers need a lot of looking after, and women of today just aren&#8217;t as interested in dating men that can&#8217;t be independant. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dating Tip #1 &#8211; if you are on your first date, then never mention that you live with your mother.  Most women think that men that live with their mothers need a lot of looking after, and women of today just aren&#8217;t as interested in dating men that can&#8217;t be independant. </p>
<p> Dating Tip #2 &#8211; Never keep your date waiting long, but never be too early either.  If you are too late for your date then he or she will think that you are pretty disorganised.  If you are too early then you will seem too keen.  Try to be on time as your date will know you are interested. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #3 &#8211; Always dress to impress but never wear anything to slutty if you are a women or too daggy if you are a bloke.  Thongs should never be worn on a date for men, unless you are going to the beach. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #4 &#8211; If you can&#8217;t remember the last time you got laid then it is time to try online dating. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #6 &#8211; Always laugh at your date&#8217;s jokes, even if they are not funny. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #7 &#8211; Never take duct tape and rope with you on your first date. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #8 &#8211; If someone flirts with you online, always respond even if they don&#8217;t fit your profile it is polite to say &#8216;No thanks&#8217;. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #9 &#8211; If you are serious about online dating then don&#8217;t make up crap in your profile.  If you do find some one you are into then, you are not going to fool them for long. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #10 &#8211; Never wear really tight clothing. If you do get lucky then you want to remove your clothing as quickly as possibly </p>
<p>Dating Tip #11 &#8211; Never wear too much perfume. Most guys can&#8217;t stand the smell of women&#8217;s perfumes so always go light on here </p>
<p>Dating Tip #12 &#8211; Never wear dirty underwear on any of your dates. ever!!! </p>
<p>Dating Tip #13 &#8211; Never order anything with garlic or onion on your first date </p>
<p>Dating Tip #14 &#8211; Don&#8217;t expect too much too quickly or don&#8217;t jump in bed on the first date unless you just want to get laid. </p>
<p>Dating Tip #15 &#8211; Never drink too much on your first date. You don&#8217;t want to be slurring your words or do something stupid. </p>
<p> Want more great dating advice and tips.  Visit us at http://www.adultlovehub.com.au </p>
<div style="margin:5px;padding:5px;border:1px solid #c1c1c1;font-size: 10px">Selina Worton is the author and forum administrator at <a href="http://www.adultlovehub.com.au" rel="nofollow">AdultLoveHub.com.au</a> &#8211; Australia&#8217;s hottest online dating and matchmaking site.  If you want more great dating articles, tips, dating news then join us now for FREE.<br /><a href="http://www.greathotmovies.com/">Watch Movies</a></div>
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		<title>4 Online Dating Tips If You Are Married To Your Work</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you married, to your work? Online dating can be an answer for you if you do not have time to get out and socialize. This is a common problem for both women and men today. Here are 4 tips to help you balance work and dating.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you married, to your work? Online dating can be an answer for you if you do not have time to get out and socialize. This is a common problem for both women and men today. Here are 4 tips to help you balance work and dating.<br />
1. Do you even know if you work too much? Many people are so engrained in the work lifestyle that the idea of a social life seems remote to them. One reason people work too much is they are missing something in their lives. Putting work ahead of friends, family and relationships is a natural way to overcome this. Online dating can fill some of that void and getting away from the office a little early is one way to do that.<br />
Why do you work too much? This is a fair question if you think you are working too much. Is it your boss pushing you? Is it your desire to get a promotion? Or again, are you working too hard to compensate for something else?<br />
2. If you do go out on a date then make sure you focus on them when you do go out. This is hard for people who work too much to do. Put the cell phone away. Forget about the report that is due tomorrow. You have a date and if you want to have another one you would be smart to work hard on paying attention to the one you are on.<br />
3. One good online dating tip that has paid off for people in the past is to ask for advice before you go out. Who better to ask than a friend who is married. If they have a happy marriage they may be able to offer you some advice that will help you go out and have a good time. If you have a friend who is doing online dating right now ask for their advice as well.<br />
4. Work at developing a life away from work. This is where online dating can help you. Finding someone to spend time with that could not care less about your career could be a real blessing to you. Finding a partner that has similar interests and hobbies will help you get a balance in your life that you do not have right now.<br />
Work is an important part of your life, but it can not be the only thing. Give online dating a chance and see if it is for you. </p>
<div style="margin:5px;padding:5px;border:1px solid #c1c1c1;font-size: 10px">Lee Blackspur offers dating tips and advice to singles all over the world. Check out his site at <a href="http://www.speedydateadvice.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.speedydateadvice.com</a> for more articles and a free report.</div>
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		<title>Dating Tip: Four Blogging Strategies to Arouse Her Interest, &amp; Make Her Think About You Nonstop</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the hardest, but most important, attraction tools to initiate and maintain after meeting a potential mate or sex partner is to pique her interest, arouse her passion, and raise her curiosity levels early on. You only get small amount of time before you&#8217;re making a touchdown in the friend zone on the team [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the hardest, but most important, attraction tools to initiate and maintain after meeting a potential mate or sex partner is to pique her interest, arouse her passion, and raise her curiosity levels early on. You only get small amount of time before you&#8217;re making a touchdown in the friend zone on the team you don&#8217;t want to be playing on. Avoid this draft.<br />
You want to get her thinking you are a smart, witty, sensual, and a potential dating material early on. Because women are always looking for the hidden meaning, or &#8220;what is he really saying,&#8221; and enjoy dissecting your words, you will have a great advantage over many other men if you can maintain an interesting and engaging blog and can get her to start reading soon after she meets you.<br />
It&#8217;s like creating your own real-time, updatable, dating site profile that she comes back to again and again, feening and hungry for knowledge about you to sink her teeth into and wrap her overanalyzing brain around.<br />
I won&#8217;t go into how to get a blog, there are tons of user-friendly platforms out there (Blogger, Livejournal, WordPress), and you can figure it out. After you get a blog, there are at least four strategies to help you get started building her info-obsession and I will lay them out for you, but first I want to give you a little background.<br />
My Own Obsession Seeding Blog Experience-<br />
I started blogging my junior year in college around late 2001, way before blogging was even cool. I soon found out the unspoken rules, drama, as well as accidentally discovered some unique advantages and relationship-jump starter benefits I would have never had imagined possible by putting a few paragraphs online.<br />
I have to admit, I probably scored at least three long-term girlfriends, 20 acquaintances/friends, and a dozen dates over a four year period purely from bloggin&#8217; it up. I kept them reading months, even years, after the relationship was over. I know for a fact these girls would continue to read my blog if I updated often enough. I am sure they eventually trailed off after not updating for months. My words echoed in their skulls and yours can too with the proper training and advice.<br />
First, you must understand I never did anything to blatantly get a reaction (ok maybe a couple of times). That is the beauty of it: A blog is supposed to be your true feelings, thoughts, and stories. Similar to a newspaper, if it&#8217;s put in print (even digital print), it must be true and a woman can not argue with that logic when it comes to feelings because it is there own. Feelings should be trusted as truth indicators for which you can not be blamed.<br />
Now, the Four Strategies:<br />
1. The Unveiling &#8211; Keep it Subtle<br />
After you&#8217;ve gone on one date, regardless of where you met her, mention that you have a blog that you keep up with that your friends read. She&#8217;ll think it is nice that you considered her a friend, then send her the address. Now that you have baited your hook, take the next step, but do this oh so carefully. She she is mildly interested, she will then use the blog to gain a &#8220;deeper insight&#8221; to who you are the days following the date.<br />
2. Me, Me, Meeeeee &#8212; Mention Her Once &amp; She will be Hooked<br />
People can not resist seeing their own name in print, as well as reading your thoughts and opinions about them. Casually mention her name in a post without any strong feelings toward or against her for the most effect. Psychological experiments prove variable interval reinforcement schedules (Google it) are the strongest for predicting consistent behavior.<br />
She&#8217;ll come back over and over, wondering when is the next time you will write about her and possibly expose how you really feel.<br />
3. Post about Past Dates &amp; Dating Other Women<br />
This may seem counter-intuitive, but it sucks her in like a line of coke does to Courtney Love. This works especially well, if they are dates from the past, but if you are seeing other people simultaneously talk about those dates too. Once she has been hooked by you mentioning her name, she is sure to think you may have talked about other dates with other women in past posts as she is clicking &#8220;previous&#8221; until her pointer finger is sore. It helps even more if you post the girls&#8217; pictures in the entry.<br />
Dummy Disclaimer<br />
Only post the girl&#8217;s picture when each relationship has actually ended, or it might freak the subject of the post out slightly. Always take a picture down, if any past dating partners request.<br />
End Disclaimer<br />
Past dates will mostly likely never ask because, even if you do post it too early, the immediate EX won&#8217;t want to admit she is still reading your blog.<br />
If you don&#8217;t have a lot of dates to write about, write about how some girl flirted with you or how you had a great time with your friends. If you can&#8217;t be seen as a mysterious writer guy that is highly sought after, you can at least be considered a fun guy that people like and has a life of his own without her. This is highly attractive as well. That is a subject for another dating tip article.<br />
4. Go Deep, but Not too Deep<br />
It is good to be thought-provoking and philosophical in your entries sometimes, but don&#8217;t overdo it. This should be obvious, but don&#8217;t whine, give self-pity, or share your deep-seeded childhood feelings and stories about how your uncle touched you. This isn&#8217;t therapy, it&#8217;s entertainment for yourself, others and to help you get that next date. Good luck! </p>
<div style="margin:5px;padding:5px;border:1px solid #c1c1c1;font-size: 10px">Neil Lemons represents Hot Bar Buddy, a Dallas-based wingwoman &amp; female promotional models agency. He writes a weekly <a href="http://www.hotbarbuddy.com/dating-tips-for-men.html" rel="nofollow">Dallas dating advice</a> article on his site <a href="http://www.hotbarbuddy.com/." rel="nofollow">http://www.hotbarbuddy.com/.</a><br /><a href="http://www.chadcreates.com/">phoenix web design</a></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the hardest, but most important, attraction tools to initiate and maintain after meeting a potential mate or sex partner is to pique her interest, arouse her passion, and raise her curiosity levels early on. You only get small amount of time before you&#8217;re making a touchdown in the friend zone on the team [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the hardest, but most important, attraction tools to initiate and maintain after meeting a potential mate or sex partner is to pique her interest, arouse her passion, and raise her curiosity levels early on. You only get small amount of time before you&#8217;re making a touchdown in the friend zone on the team you don&#8217;t want to be playing on. Avoid this draft.<br />
You want to get her thinking you are a smart, witty, sensual, and a potential dating material early on. Because women are always looking for the hidden meaning, or &#8220;what is he really saying,&#8221; and enjoy dissecting your words, you will have a great advantage over many other men if you can maintain an interesting and engaging blog and can get her to start reading soon after she meets you.<br />
It&#8217;s like creating your own real-time, updatable, dating site profile that she comes back to again and again, feening and hungry for knowledge about you to sink her teeth into and wrap her overanalyzing brain around.<br />
I won&#8217;t go into how to get a blog, there are tons of user-friendly platforms out there (Blogger, Livejournal, WordPress), and you can figure it out. After you get a blog, there are at least four strategies to help you get started building her info-obsession and I will lay them out for you, but first I want to give you a little background.<br />
My Own Obsession Seeding Blog Experience-<br />
I started blogging my junior year in college around late 2001, way before blogging was even cool. I soon found out the unspoken rules, drama, as well as accidentally discovered some unique advantages and relationship-jump starter benefits I would have never had imagined possible by putting a few paragraphs online.<br />
I have to admit, I probably scored at least three long-term girlfriends, 20 acquaintances/friends, and a dozen dates over a four year period purely from bloggin&#8217; it up. I kept them reading months, even years, after the relationship was over. I know for a fact these girls would continue to read my blog if I updated often enough. I am sure they eventually trailed off after not updating for months. My words echoed in their skulls and yours can too with the proper training and advice.<br />
First, you must understand I never did anything to blatantly get a reaction (ok maybe a couple of times). That is the beauty of it: A blog is supposed to be your true feelings, thoughts, and stories. Similar to a newspaper, if it&#8217;s put in print (even digital print), it must be true and a woman can not argue with that logic when it comes to feelings because it is there own. Feelings should be trusted as truth indicators for which you can not be blamed.<br />
Now, the Four Strategies:<br />
1. The Unveiling &#8211; Keep it Subtle<br />
After you&#8217;ve gone on one date, regardless of where you met her, mention that you have a blog that you keep up with that your friends read. She&#8217;ll think it is nice that you considered her a friend, then send her the address. Now that you have baited your hook, take the next step, but do this oh so carefully. She she is mildly interested, she will then use the blog to gain a &#8220;deeper insight&#8221; to who you are the days following the date.<br />
2. Me, Me, Meeeeee &#8212; Mention Her Once &amp; She will be Hooked<br />
People can not resist seeing their own name in print, as well as reading your thoughts and opinions about them. Casually mention her name in a post without any strong feelings toward or against her for the most effect. Psychological experiments prove variable interval reinforcement schedules (Google it) are the strongest for predicting consistent behavior.<br />
She&#8217;ll come back over and over, wondering when is the next time you will write about her and possibly expose how you really feel.<br />
3. Post about Past Dates &amp; Dating Other Women<br />
This may seem counter-intuitive, but it sucks her in like a line of coke does to Courtney Love. This works especially well, if they are dates from the past, but if you are seeing other people simultaneously talk about those dates too. Once she has been hooked by you mentioning her name, she is sure to think you may have talked about other dates with other women in past posts as she is clicking &#8220;previous&#8221; until her pointer finger is sore. It helps even more if you post the girls&#8217; pictures in the entry.<br />
Dummy Disclaimer<br />
Only post the girl&#8217;s picture when each relationship has actually ended, or it might freak the subject of the post out slightly. Always take a picture down, if any past dating partners request.<br />
End Disclaimer<br />
Past dates will mostly likely never ask because, even if you do post it too early, the immediate EX won&#8217;t want to admit she is still reading your blog.<br />
If you don&#8217;t have a lot of dates to write about, write about how some girl flirted with you or how you had a great time with your friends. If you can&#8217;t be seen as a mysterious writer guy that is highly sought after, you can at least be considered a fun guy that people like and has a life of his own without her. This is highly attractive as well. That is a subject for another dating tip article.<br />
4. Go Deep, but Not too Deep<br />
It is good to be thought-provoking and philosophical in your entries sometimes, but don&#8217;t overdo it. This should be obvious, but don&#8217;t whine, give self-pity, or share your deep-seeded childhood feelings and stories about how your uncle touched you. This isn&#8217;t therapy, it&#8217;s entertainment for yourself, others and to help you get that next date. Good luck! </p>
<div style="margin:5px;padding:5px;border:1px solid #c1c1c1;font-size: 10px">Neil Lemons represents Hot Bar Buddy, a Dallas-based wingwoman &amp; female promotional models agency. He writes a weekly <a href="http://www.hotbarbuddy.com/dating-tips-for-men.html" rel="nofollow">Dallas dating advice</a> article on his site <a href="http://www.hotbarbuddy.com/." rel="nofollow">http://www.hotbarbuddy.com/.</a><br /><a href="http://www.producertoday.com/">Music Producer</a></div>
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		<title>Dating Tips For Men That Should Be Obvious</title>
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Call Her
Possibly of the oft repeated dating tips for men, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every woman is different, with different preferences, so what wins one girl&#8217;s heart may leave another unsatisfied. However, there are a few things that hold true for the vast majority if there were a set of commandment-like dating tips for men, these would be among them<br />
Call Her<br />
Possibly of the oft repeated dating tips for men, offered by other men, is to wait a certain number of days after a first date to call a woman. Apparently this is based on the premise that calling sooner will make a man seem too eager. Where men got the idea that women are turned off by men who are eager to talk to them is a mystery.<br />
If a woman doesn&#8217;t hear from a man within a few days of their date, she&#8217;s likely to get anxious and uncomfortable about whether or not the man is interested in her. This does not add excitement; it simply adds unneeded tension to a situation already rife with anxiety to begin with.<br />
Offer to Pay the Check<br />
In the age of social equality and splitting the check, it has almost come to be taken for granted that both parties will pay their own way on a date. While this is fair and politically correct, it&#8217;s not very romantic. Some dating tips for men and women suggest that whoever initiates the date should pay, however, that could lead to a potentially awkward situation if one party incorrectly assumes that the other is paying. Although your date may decline your offer to cover the whole bill, she will be grateful for your offer as it shows respect for her.<br />
Maintain Friendships with Women<br />
Do not ask men for dating tips; women are the experts on their own gender. Having strong platonic ties to the female population offers an unmatched opportunity for insight into what they like, what they go through, and how to relate to them. The stereotype that a man who grows up with a lot of sisters has better luck with women is partly true for this reason.<br />
He is likely to have greater respect for women, as he imagines how he would want his own sisters to be treated. Female friends can offer an unlimited supply of dating tips for men in their lives because they genuinely want their male friends to be happy and, therefore, generally offer useful advice. </p>
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		<title>First Date Tips &#8211; Make That Lasting First Impression on your Partner</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One should dress up well for her or his first date. A good dress makes a positive impression on one&#8217;s partner. One need not dress up formally for the occasion, rather one should wear clothes which are comfortable to wear. A girl or a boy will not mind which brand of the cloth one wears [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One should dress up well for her or his first date. A good dress makes a positive impression on one&#8217;s partner. One need not dress up formally for the occasion, rather one should wear clothes which are comfortable to wear. A girl or a boy will not mind which brand of the cloth one wears as long as he or she is dressed up smartly. Boys should take care to shave properly and wear polished shoes on their first date. A boy should also spray a good quality cologne on his clothes so that he may smell sweet to his girl. One should take care not to spray too much cologne on his clothes otherwise it may actually smell bad to the girl.</p>
<p>As they say that first impression is the last impression, so one should take care to make positive impressions on the mind of one&#8217;s partner on the first meeting. The purpose of first date is to know each other well and decide if a long relationship is possible with the other person or not. It may eventually turn out that the individual about whom one had fancied a lot might have a totally different disposition. It would be difficult for one to spend even an hour with such a person. One should also try to get some good first date tips from one&#8217;s friends who already had gone for a date with someone.</p>
<p>No first date tip is carved in stones. One should be flexible to change them to suit one&#8217;s personality and situations. There are several myths in the minds of people regarding first date. One such myth is that nice looking individuals are good daters. On the contrary, many nice looking individuals may perform badly on their first date if they do not take care to make it a success. Another myth is that ugly looking people do not get dates easily. It is also not true. One need not look like a Tom Cruise or Beyonce Knowles to get a date. What matters more is one&#8217;s overall personality and not merely good looks. Many not so good looking boys score well with exceptionally gorgeous girls on their first date.</p>
<p>Women should take special care to reach the dating venue on time. While men and women seem to be equally split on the issue of promptness, women are generally perceived to be late comers as they often spend much time on primping. A girl should reach before time or on time in situations where there is a time constraint like a movie time or dinner reservation. A woman should not spend too much time to appear perfectly well groomed. Too much emphasis on the make up can actually impede the enjoyment of first meeting.</p>
<p>Internet has redefined the way people relate with each other. Many people would prefer online dating to a traditional one. Such a dating has it sown advantages and disadvantages. It is fast, simple to use, cheap and enjoyable. It is flexible also as it saves one lot of time. One can decide during chatting itself if one would like to meet other individual personally or not. Moreover, It helps one overcome the fear of rejection on first meeting as one can always refuse the other person&#8217;s proposal during chatting itself. One need not meet a person physically only to get rejected some time later.</p>
<p>One should be careful in developing an online relationship. Many people use online dating for vile purposes. There are few things that one should keep in mind while entertaining someone on the internet. One should respect the privacy of the other person and should uphold her or his trust. One should not share other individual&#8217;s personal information like telephone number, email address and digital photos with one&#8217;s friends or strangers. One should take time to understand the other individual and not force anything on him otherwise he or she will appear to be too pushy. That may spoil the relationship altogether.</p>
<p>First date tips are not simple do&#8217;s and dont&#8217;s. Rather they are useful commandments of relationships that one should take care to respect and follow, in letter and spirit. </p>
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		<title>Interracial dating trends</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is important to point out that gender is one of the determining factors of interracial dating trends. Caucasian females are least likely to date Asian men, whilst white males in the U.S tend to be least attracted to female African American&#8217;s. With all the choice and online dating niches available for today&#8217;s singles , [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is important to point out that gender is one of the determining factors of interracial dating trends. Caucasian females are least likely to date Asian men, whilst white males in the U.S tend to be least attracted to female African American&#8217;s. With all the choice and online dating niches available for today&#8217;s singles , cross cultural online dating is one niche that remains untapped and according to statisticians will remain that way due to a lack of potential demand. Trends in the online dating scene strongly indicate that singles prefer to pursue romance within their own domain. </p>
<p>Whist these trends are a generalization, it is not uncommon to see happy interracial couples who have blended their traditions, and if you are one of those people who prefer to date outside your race, we have compiled some tips to help facilitate your non traditional dating experiences. </p>
<p>The diehards: Staunch traditionalists cannot conceive or tolerate the idea of their children interbreeding. This mentality can be aligned with religion, or strong influences from previous less racial tolerant generations. Up until 1967, U.S law prohibited marriage outside of ones race. Whilst there is still alot to do, interracial dating and marriage is far more acceptable in main stream society than previously with current trends slowly dissolving steadfast views. </p>
<p>Individually, many people strive for the acceptance of personal choice, however our choices and decisions are still heavily determined by outside influences such as friends and family. Open racial dating is something that needs to be supported in current times of global unrest as combining traditions sets the scene to better understand divided races. </p>
<p>The media should also shoulder much of the blame for our divisive society. It&#8217;s far easier and financially viable for advertisers, television/radio networks and newspaper publications to cater for the general audience than it is to introduce media campaigns targeting individual ethnic groups. </p>
<p>To give you an idea of the marriage statistics when it comes to interracial dating and marriage, we have compiled some interesting statistics based on the 2008 U.S census results: </p>
<p>Black husbands: Married 310,000 white women &#8211; Married 4,190,000 black women &#8211; Married 39,700 Asian women. White husbands: Married 55,399,200 white women &#8211; Married 137,000 black women &#8211; Married 713,000 Asian women. Asian husbands: Married 193,000 white women &#8211; Married 8400 black women &#8211; Married 2,790,000 Asian women. </p>
<p>Thanks to modern technologies, the internet is also contributing to more interracial dating and marriages. For singles with the desire to form relationships outside their race, online dating sites provide this opportunity. Determining and recognizing opportunities offline together with constant negative influences, online dating sites will take you directly to those looking for foreign lovers. </p>
<p>Dating someone of a foreign background will also cause people to stare when you are out in public. Whilst this may seem offensive and off putting, there is every chance these looker-on&#8217;s are intrigued and fascinated. See this as your opportunity and contribution to show the world that we are all of one race, the human race. </p>
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		<title>Book an online date with destiny &#8211; online dating &#8211; give it ago!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 05:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unless you&#8217;ve been living under a rock or on a remote island, you will know that online dating has become second nature and a choice by instinct for busy and smart singles. </p>
<p>We&#8217;ve all heard of the horror stories shared by the media and online dating reviews about liaisons gone wrong with online dating. Some pretty common bad experiences we sometimes hear about include people mis-representing themselves when comparing their real life appearance to their online dating profile. We hear stories about online daters meeting up only to discover their picture doesn&#8217;t match them in person, or their profile picture is 10 years old, we even hear about cheeky online singles posting photos on their dating profile of someone else! </p>
<p>Ever heard how one bad apple can spoil the whole batch? With online dating, we don&#8217;t hear enough about the thousands of successful outcomes experienced by technologically savvy singles! </p>
<p>In America alone, there is an average of 3 million marriages each year, with online dating accounting for an average of 360,000 of these marriages which is basically 10% of all marriages in America each and every year. So to those people who are inclined to knock online dating sites, you can hardly argue with this statistic. Then you need to factor in the de-facto relationships and casual relationships discovered through online dating, and we are realistically talking about over 1 million new relationships each year in America thanks to online dating. </p>
<p>And who could argue or find fault with the concept of online dating &#8211; the facts speak for themselves. If you know how to pick a non-genuine online dater, and have an eye for the real deal, the internet has an array of free online dating sites with real people. A recent media report from Australia claims that online dating usage is up more than 200% compared to last year (2008). And unlike many so called free offers we see around these days by marketing companies, a select number of free online dating sites are ad-funded and have no need to charge member subscriptions, so they really do offer the lot for free &#8211; free to browse &#8211; free to join &#8211; free to contact &#8211; free to chat. </p>
<p>Even though we can date for free online, some online singles prefer to stick with the tried and trusted established online dating sites, and are prepared to pay for their membership, which is fair enough, sometimes it&#8217;s better to stick to what you know and trust especially when it comes to finding someone to share your life with. </p>
<p>Match.com is the worlds largest online dating site and charge their members a subscription to use their dating service which proves that many singles are first and foremost selecting their choice of dating service by reputation over cost. </p>
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		<title>Five Easy Dating Tips For Single Women To Find Your Soul Mate</title>
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Dating Tips for Single Women #1: Do What You Love
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems like the older you get, the more difficult it is to meet single straight men. Before too long, Mr. Right becomes Mr. Right Here. These dating tips for single women are designed to help you find your soul mate.<br />
Dating Tips for Single Women #1: Do What You Love<br />
You&#8217;re more likely to find a compatible partner doing something you love, so why not explore interests you&#8217;ve been putting on hold? Join a bird watching group or a book group, take a class in baking or writing at the community college, volunteer for a cause you support. Even if the love of your life doesn&#8217;t show up right away, you&#8217;ll still benefit from doing what you love to do.<br />
Dating Tips for Single Women #2: Go to Singles Groups<br />
Where better to meet single men than at groups intended for singles? So, go to single mixers at your church or synagogue. If you have kids, attend a parents without partners support group.<br />
Dating Tips for Single Women #3: Tell People You&#8217;re Looking<br />
We&#8217;ve all heard horror stories about blind dates arranged by well-meaning friends, but those are the exception rather than the rule. The truth is, our friends know us well&#8211;sometimes even better than we know ourselves, and if they have an intuition a man might be right for us, why not agree to a date to scope things out for ourselves?<br />
Dating Tips for Single Women #4: Try Speed Dating<br />
Speed dating is a wonderful way to meet multiple potential partners in a single night. Basically, everyone at the function is given a number. Then you and a man sit down together and converse for a few minutes (usually between three and eight). At the end of that time, the moderator will have you move on to another partner. At the end of the evening, you write down the numbers of men you would like to see again. If those same men have also written down your number, it&#8217;s a match!<br />
Dating Tips for Single Women #5: Use the Internet &#8211; Cautiously<br />
There are multiple online sites for singles, and many loving couples have hooked up in cyberspace. To increase your chances of finding a good match as opposed to say, Freddie Krueger&#8217;s twin brother, use a reputable dating site and keep a healthy bit of skepticism. After all, anyone can pretend to be anything in cyberspace, and someone who sounds to good to be true probably is. </p>
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